Making Goals as SAHM

I had recently read a blog by a fellow blogger (Shann Eva’s Blog) on her March Goals. She’s incorporated the goals she has yet to achieve with new ones she’s made, and the included short-term and long-term goals.



I find as a Stay-at-home-mom it’s so crucial to make goals for oneself. It’s so important to have something to work towards, because lord knows if you didn’t you’d just do this motherhood thing front, back, side, and front again. AND LETS BE HONEST, you can’t possibly just MAAAAAAAM all day, everyday, for as long as you’re living. I mean, it can’t all just be that! It doesn’t make you bad at motherhood or a bad mom at that, for wanting more! It doesn’t mean you can’t have other accomplishments,  other than birthing children (although that pretty much tops it all).

As moms, we accomplish tens and thousands of tasks all day. Well most of those tasks are not of ours. Not of anything we really want to do or want to be doing. It’s insane how much of us we pour into the lives that rely on us. I get it, we’re moms, I get it we’re supposed to because how else do we profess our eternal love for our children who is supposed to be our world and nothing else. Well, it makes me a rebellious mom, perhaps. I do what I want, on my own terms, based on my own ideas and understanding of motherhood.




I’m making monthly goals. That’s all!

Because March is almost done, and I’d rather start them at the beginning of the month, I’ll write this for April 2017.


April 2017

  • work-out 4 times a week, for 40 mins a day.
  • write in my journal daily with affirmations, negatives to positives, memories, moments, and fill a page at least (thorughout the day)
  • say at least one good thing that I love about each member of my family-to them, everyday
  • give myself an hour each day, to write in my journal in peace
  • eat healthier meals and try not to skip eating
  • try and smoke less
  • learn some breathing excercises
  • do one kind thing for someone, anyone, small, or big
  • Take a few hours on the weekend to dedicate to writing scheduled blog posts
  • Dedicate a time during the night to complete tasks for my blog page on facebook & for my blog site.
  • TAKE A BREAK, daily
  • Complete any wedding stuff every weekend


I will complete as many of these goals throughout the month, and whatever I don’t complete, I will add on to my next month’s monthly goal post. Let’s make each other accountable for what we want to achieve for ourselves!

I know it seems like another long list of tasks for you to complete, but this is for you. I promise it will make you feel good!


It will make [YOU] feel good!!


MM, out!

  One thought on “Making Goals as SAHM

  1. Mae
    March 14, 2017 at 6:13 pm

    Great goals! It helps to write down goals and check them off. You inspire me to do the same!

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    • March 14, 2017 at 6:15 pm

      Thank you! Honestly the amount of moms ive met lately through my site..are the reasons for this. They inspire me. To be better to give myself credit for all that we do as moms. And that at the end of the day, we matter just as much as those we take care of. So this is for all the moms and this is for all of the moments we wanna take back for ourselves.


  2. March 14, 2017 at 2:57 pm

    Wow!! I am terrible at making goals. But now I am inspired. Thank you.

    Liked by 1 person

    • March 14, 2017 at 3:15 pm

      Start small. Doesnt have to be big goals. Just small ones to help you take care of yourself.

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  3. March 14, 2017 at 2:47 am

    That workout one is the one that gets me. I start bargaining with myself saying ok, I climbed a tree house, I chased a toddler, etc… I want to have a more purposeful goal of this. You are doing great by keeping a list. All the best to you, I know you can do it.

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  4. Kim Amy
    March 13, 2017 at 5:54 pm

    It’s always great to set goals otherwise is “just keep swimming” instead of WooHoo I did that!

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    • March 13, 2017 at 9:00 pm

      Yeah i mean we’re still our own person..we still have accomplishments to check off small or big. So i find these are totally important for our own sanity


  5. March 13, 2017 at 4:39 pm

    I have a gratitude and goals linky that I’d love to see you link this up to.

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    • March 13, 2017 at 9:00 pm

      Sure i can check it out and incorporate it to my next months goals 👌


  6. March 13, 2017 at 3:00 pm

    Yes!!!! Smoke less!!! please!!!
    and I love how balanced you are… being super organized and planning and setting goals… but starting next month!!!! 🙂

    Liked by 1 person

    • March 13, 2017 at 9:03 pm

      Im far from balanced..organize, maybe a little but not to the tee. But obviously i want to keep attaining small goals for myself to keep me sane. Lol


  7. March 13, 2017 at 1:59 pm

    Love all the ideas to make everyday objects fun, new, and exciting!

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  8. March 13, 2017 at 1:54 pm

    This is such a great reminder to put ourselves first sometimes. Its so easy to get swamped with everything we do for the kids and forget about ourselves. Your list of goals is wonderful! I’ll be stealing a couple and making my own list.
    This post is very relatable. I think just about every mom could really benefit from it.

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    • March 13, 2017 at 9:04 pm

      Indeed. Thanks for stopping by and appreciating it. I mean we all have goals and wants and things we still continue to want to be aside from being a mom. So these are definitely important in any point in life.

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    • March 13, 2017 at 9:05 pm

      Oh and if you make a post of your list share it with me. Im incorporating other moms who’s doing goals on my monthly goals post.

      Liked by 1 person

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