#RockingMotherhood be like…

Thank you to one of my favourite mommy bloggers Tina from (No, You Need to Calm Down), for tagging me in #rockingmotherhood!

 

It’s literally taken me a week to get this going. I took about a week off blogging, to deal with coping with my Postpartum Depression. Last weekend was my youngest daughter’s baptism. We had her godparents, and my husband’s family over for the weekend. It went well, but perhaps, I was exhausted from all of it and ended up feeling unmotivated and in postpartum depression mode. I don’t really know how to explain that to you, but I just didn’t feel like myself, nor did I feel upbeat enough to continue on with my blogging to-do’s. 

I have been trying to figure out, how I have been #rockingmotherhood. It’s a lot harder to find things you do so good that you’re rocking this role called, motherhood. Most of the time, we get so caught up with picking-at the bad stuff we do, we are mostly filled with guilt rather than accomplishments.

 

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I am going to try my best to come up with a few things to share with you how I am #rockingmotherhood, but please bear with me.


  1. I, mother 3!

    For most of the day, I take care of all three of my children. All day, everyday. I find this as impressive as someone who can juggle. If you’re new to my blog, then you probably don’t know that we moved three and a half hours away from home (Toronto, ON), because my husband found work over the border in Michigan, USA as a project engineer. He works for an automation company, so this means he spends endless hours working on projects and meeting deadlines. This also means, while he spends endless hours at work, I spend endless hours at home taking care of our three babies and everything else in between. I don’t know about you but having children in general is hard and then you add two more and I can guarantee you, you’ll lose your mind trying to figure out how to do just that.
  2. Queen of Unhealthy Snacks

    I contemplated on writing this, but I am definitely my children’s bestfriend when it comes to getting snacks. All day, my two year old asks for snacks, unless she’s sleeping. So having a crazy amount of snacks in my house is as important as changing your underwear every single day. I also don’t have all healthy snacks (don’t judge me). I grew up not really having all the snacks I wanted for school. So I told myself that when I grow up, I will buy and have all the snacks I want. This also means, I send my son stuff to school I never got like: Lunchables, brownies, cakes, dunkaroos, cookies, fake juice, and the list goes on (I know all the healthy mamas reading this are probably shaking their heads at me). There’s surely a sprinkle of healthier snacks in there, that I just don’t care to mention, but my children aren’t always high on sugar, I promise. Having these “snacks” allow me to miss out on most tantrums about the kinds of snacks they want when we grocery shop. While I didn’t start them on healthy eating, I do try to encourage them to eat healthier most of the time. Those snacks are also not free-for-all, whenever, wherever. These are snacks they have to ask for and not expect to just have.
  3. Lesson in Everything
    I am the strict one, between my husband and I. I usually make all the rules, while my husband sometimes try to bend them for the kids. I constantly use moments and situations as a learning tool. Experiences are so big with my eight year old right now. I encourage him to always take them for what it is, after exerting all possible solutions. When we’ve got none, then we resort to “what can we learn from this”. I teach all my kids the same thing; for every action comes consequence. This applies more to my son, because he’s the oldest and he’s in school, so he has more experience with social experiences. It’s tough for him at times, and I wish I could just bear it all for him, and deal with it all for him. But he is a growing boy, and there are things he has to learn for himself. Whether that means, dealing with it the best way he thinks at the time and still having it be a mistake. Then we deal with it, as it comes. It’s tough being a teacher about life, when you’ve had such a different upbringing.
  4. Treats: Anyday
    I don’t have a strict routine on taking adventures or going out. I usually just go when I want to go. This means, I take my kids with me. Most of the time these sporadic trips are really more for them than me, but it makes me happy. For example, yesterday I was overwhelmed and not feeling too well. Apollo had gone to a birthday party, which J drove him to. The girls and I stayed home. The girls were supposed to have been napping. Only one of them did. So the other, watched t.v. with me. She was of course miserable after missing that nap. Well soon after, Apollo and J returned. Apollo obviously had a loot bag, and my two year old would obviously become jealous for having cool stuff in a bag. So I decided to take her to Party City, on a shopping spree of 0.40c toys and candies she can fit in their little tiny baskets. She was super happy, and excited. She listened the whole time we were in the store! Oh and when I said, “not that one” or “that one is too expensive”, she calmly responded, “Okay mom”. That experience meant to me more than the fact that I was spoiling her. That she had to have a loot bag, even though she didn’t go to a birthday party. But she got her siblings something too, which I thought was sweet! So these moments, call for no appointments in my calendar. I usually just go whenever I feel like my kids deserve a small joys. It could be a trip to the dollarstore, for one item each. The smiles in those moments, make my heart flutter and it’s the best weakness I have for my kids.
  5. I Always Know Where it is
    I’m pretty sure all moms have this in common, we are always the ones who are supposed to keep track of everything, for everyone. It can get pretty challenging and annoying having to be the go-to person for everything.

    “I don’t actually always know where it is, but I think I’ve seen it”, is my motto.

    I have a photographic memory of everything in my house. I can recall where an item is, by memory even though I don’t need to know. Ok, I don’t spend all day trying to memorize things, I just sort of store it in my head and when someone is looking for something, I can direct them easily to it. It’s a gift, it’s a curse, whichever, I always know where it is!

 

We all have things we’re really good at that helps everyone in our little family to get the ball going, we all #RockMotherhood!

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I’d like to nominate these awesome mommies who also happen to be my other favourite bloggers, so they can too share how they’re #RockingMotherhood:

Tiffany (Shortsweetmom), Kristin (PrettyLoved), Ant (Ourcookery), and Dedreanna (Adventures at Home).

 

MM, out!

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  2. April 11, 2017 at 6:40 pm

    This is amazing! You are such a strong mamma! You been through some rough things, and made it out stronger! I love how indepth you went and it is such an amazing post! ❤❤❤

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  3. Mae
    April 11, 2017 at 6:06 pm

    Awesome job! Motherhood is a tough job, you certainly need a ton of patience but it’s so rewarding at the end of the day.

    Mae | http://www.thegospelofbeauty.org

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  4. April 11, 2017 at 5:36 am

    I can relate to this post. MOTHERHOOD isn’t really an easy task. Salute to all mothers doing multi tasking. Thanks for sharing. 😘

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  5. babiestobookworms
    April 11, 2017 at 12:40 am

    Great list! You are rocking it! I still count on my mom to find things I cannot, even now that I am a mother myself!

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  6. April 10, 2017 at 11:22 pm

    I love you. I admire and understand where you’re coming from…and…I have one! I tried doing healthy all the time and that lasted for about 2 seconds. Loved reading about how you helped your girl make her own loot bag and she even picked stuff out for her sibling. That! Mama…is how you know you’re rockin’ it. No joke.

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    • April 10, 2017 at 11:26 pm

      Thank you so much! You don’t understand how much what you said means to me! Lately all i feel is a failure at motherhood, and doing this challenge i thought id believe all the things i wrote on there..honestly i only halfly do. I’m in a bad place right now and every day i just feel stuck and guilty..i know its part postpartum depression but i just feel so lost in motherhood right now.

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      • April 10, 2017 at 11:40 pm

        I have mantras that I say…and I don’t fully buy it all the time either. Anyone who tells you they don’t feel like they’re failing at times is either not being honest, heavily medicated, or needs to be heavily medicated. 😉 Haha! Lean on your people…we are your people.

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      • April 10, 2017 at 11:45 pm

        Hahaha that is hilarious! The “break” i took was a cheat..coz i was still on instagram watching people’s story videos and liking posts. 😊 honestly though, having met so many wonderful mamas help! You guys are definitely “my village” in some small way (since you’re all in another country)! Much love! ❤

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  7. April 10, 2017 at 9:08 pm

    Love this! It is so important for all of us mamas to be proud of what we do. We are all different and we are all doing the best we can for our families. We deserve to celebrate ourselves! Thank you for nominating me in this fun challenge.

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    • April 10, 2017 at 10:38 pm

      I can’t wait to read yours! Im sure many of us who follow your social media agree you’re pretty amazing! Now its just you who need to share how you feel you’re rocking motherhood! ❤

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  8. April 10, 2017 at 8:53 pm

    I have three kids too! It is tough. I like how as moms we always seem to know where the most random things are! You’re doing great!

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  9. Mummy's Monkey
    April 10, 2017 at 12:09 pm

    Some great reasons here. I’ve been loving the rocking motherhood tag. Us mumies are all awesome!

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  10. April 10, 2017 at 9:59 am

    Love this! These are such real reasons your rocking motherhood. I feel like any mom can relate to being the keeper of all things. Can’t find it? Mom knows where it is.

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    • April 10, 2017 at 10:05 am

      Right?! Why are we so awesome like that? Drives me nuts sometimes though. Haha

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      • April 10, 2017 at 10:13 am

        I’m very forgetful so it’s a huge issue in my home. Turns out moms prolly the one who lost it.

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      • April 10, 2017 at 10:20 am

        Looool 😂😂

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  11. rightmeowornever
    April 10, 2017 at 9:46 am

    I love this! I think as moms we are always so hard on ourselves but we really have to find the joy in all of the little things! I, too, am the QUEEN of unhealthy snacks so that totally made me LOL! I mean, how does anyone not survive on oreos?!

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    • April 10, 2017 at 10:06 am

      Thank you! It was hard to find at least 5 and even then i dont know if those are good enough to say how i rock motherhood. Lol yaaass thank god im not the only queen of unhealthy snacks! Oreos..mmm gonna make some oreo mini cheesecake soon!

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